I’ve been thinking for a while that I’d really like to get to know some of my followers, so if any of you would like to talk online or be penpals or something then let me know! Just send me a message about it and we can figure something out :)
Why would somebody tell you they have feelings for you and want to stay friends / keep in contact with you than start ignoring you than after that just completely stop talking to you say they are "going through something." But really just ignore you completely after that? What the hell is that?should I give up trying to keep in contact than?@Anonymous
Give them the benefit of the doubt for a while before giving up. You really have no way to know what’s going on in their life unless they tell you! Let them know that you’re there for them, but give them space and let them come to you. If they’re going through a hard time they may be the kind of person that handles that better on their own. Try to be patient with them because you have no way to know what’s happening in their life until they tell you
Thank you for your advice !! It made sense ! :) thanks again! Love your tumblr btw!@Anonymous
Anytime lovely, and thank you so much!
How do you stop loving a girl whom you love so much knowing it will never happen can't happen and btw your a girl also?:(@Anonymous
I don’t think you can ever force yourself to stop loving someone or caring about them. If you don’t think it’ll ever work out, then I suppose the best thing to do is to try to come to terms with that and accept it so that you can move on. It takes time, which is lousy to hear, but it’s true. However, if your feelings are very strong and you think it could happen between the two of you, then maybe you should say something to her about it!
And yes, I am a girl